As we all know, females can be ruthless when it comes to relationships, but there’s this rare species known as “wife material” that’s out there. Guys usually don’t run into these girls until we’re damaged goods and a product of the screwed up society that told us it was in our nature to be a dumbass. Yeah, many of us outgrow this phase, but more times than not, timing isn’t on our side. For the ones who’re approaching this transition and think they’ve found the one, here are a few things to help you remove all doubt. She’s the one if…
She was your best friend when your “homeboys” left you hanging.
She could listen to you go on and on about your dreams and hung on every word because she believed in you.
She saw the attention you gave those other girls but still ignored the attention from other guys.
She caught attitudes with you but only because she wanted you to care more and not be afraid to show it.
She changed her hair and couldn’t wait for you to notice but only without her having to point it out.
When you had nothing, she was willing to give up everything to have nothing with you. She wasn’t perfect, but her effort to be there for you was.
She sees her favorite ring in a store and gets excited hoping that you notice without feeling like she’s pressuring you into anything.
She’s the girl that told you the truth when you needed to hear it most and still didn’t judge you.
When you kept coming in late, she was too scared to ask where you were because she might get the truth.
She’s the girl that was so proud to be by your side but you never would hold her hand in public.
She loved you when it was the wrong thing to do. Not because she was stupid, but because she couldn’t shake the feeling that everything you went through together had to mean something to you.
She’s the girl you made cry over and over again until she was out of tears and couldn’t take it anymore.
If that’s her, then she’s the one and you really don’t deserve her.
But if you didn’t do any and everything in your power to get her back and keep her there, then you made the biggest mistake of your life.